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Structure
There are people who are driven and there are those who are not. In no way am I saying that people are better than others. I am saying people are different from one another. There are self-starters and there are people like me that need more structure. In fact there are four main personality types and they vary as night and day. People like me need a platform or program that prevents character defects, such as my ADD, that wants to hold me back, from allowing me to thrive.
I am a recovering alcoholic and need the structure of a program to stay on course and an over eater that needs a structure or program for the same reason. Structure sets the course and I plot my plan within the conditions of the structure. If I had no structure I would drift at sea permanently. I am neither proud of this nor ashamed; I am merely aware and take action on that awareness.
I believe that I am blessed with unlimited success as I get to be a part of WE instead of just me. I get to be a part of something bigger than me to allow me to feel like I am an integral part of something much larger that me. I am one in a world of seven billion and am able to remain a unique individual as proven by my DNA. I get to learn to hold solid on my beliefs and still allow others the right to have theirs. I am blessed with fellowship, which affords me both criticism and support.
The major part of my profession as a metaphysical minister and metaphysical psychologist is to help people create mental structure. I help people understand and live within the confines of God and spiritual law. I guide people in becoming God incarnate or to become the child of God that we were all created to be, within the confines of the laws that guide us to our ultimate potential.
As children of God we learn to be honest without being opinionated or critical as "Criticism without Cure is Criminal." We learn to love as unconditionally as possible in parallel to God's love. We try to live by God's principals such as kindness, compassion, tolerance and understanding to name only a few. We can only accomplish this within the structure of WE. An as always the moral to this story is...
Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
Cause and Effect
Societies primary modus operandi is pathology. Pathology is the study of disease. We seem to think we can create good health by changing the effect without changing the cause. We use drugs for everything, although drugs cure very few diseases. The FDA has stated that the only thing that can claim curing a disease is a licensed drug from a pharmaceutical company. It seems God has been left out of curing all the diseases of mankind.
Apathology is the study of health. The human body, in perfect health, is capable of fighting off any and all diseases. Yet we rely on drugs that oftentimes have more side affects than the original disease. Our reliance on drugs has made our country the seventy-fifth healthiest country at a cost that is the highest in the world. We are not gaining ground on disease because disease is an incredible money maker. The cost of good health, on the other hand, is only slightly higher than poor health.
By feeding the body organic highly nutritional food and pure water we feed our cells what they need to take care of us. When we provide our body with sufficient rest and plentiful exercise we charge our body to it's maximum potential. When we feed our minds with positive optimistic thoughts we send positive information to our cells and allow them to work properly. When we pray and meditate we empower ourselves in the image and likeness of God. This empowerment provides us with the creative energy that created the universe.
When we become responsible for our health we will no longer look to the government, the so called health professionals or any other people for our health. When all is said and done the results of our lack of responsibility will be our demise. And always remember...
Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
Talent
Everyone was born to be someone. Most of us have been convinced that we don't know what we are destined to be in order for someone else to decide for us. I was never encouraged to develop my internal talent. Many people start out life in a predestined direction and are quickly brought into compliance by the people in their lives who propose their actions as loving and "for their own good." The reality is that the good is for the people demanding the compliance and not the person forced into compliance.
Our society has become so brainwashed toward political correctness that individuality has been lost. In the loss of individuality one's inner talent is lost. This is sad because our DNA has set us toward a propensity for greatness guided by our intrinsic talents. When one is guided away from their talents the journey toward greatness is misguided and the result is usually failure. Thank goodness God refuses to accept failure as there is always opportunity to recover awareness of who we really are, otherwise I would have had to settle for mediocrity.
If, through my failures, I had not been met with the wisdom, encountered at my bottom, I would not have known my ultimate potential. I had to fail at being who I thought I was, before I could restart my life toward my destiny. In the journey toward providence I found my talents. These talents were actually the things that my youth support system convinced me to let go of in an attempt to help me become what they thought was my best interest. They were wrong and God was right. I may not fit into any mold of average or complacency. I am who I am and that is perfect in God's eyes.
Your DNA proves that there has never been, nor ever will be, another person exactly like you. LIVE LOUD! BE YOURSELF! FIND YOUR TALENT! DON'T SETTLE! We are not made to be all alike. We are all a combination of talents required to balance society and create a beautiful patchwork. No matter who you think you are or how your life seems to be you will look back at your life as you are leaving this life and admire your footprints. And always remember...
Your life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
Humility
I have been accused of lacking humility most of my life as I have a double A personality. Passive people seem to believe that one must be passive in order to achieve humility. Humility is not a status. Humility is not weakness. Humility is not necessarily quiet or peaceful. SO WHAT IS HUMILITY?
Years ago I was told that humility was merely realizing your right place with God and not your place in society. If I feel that I am in charge of my life then I lack humility. If I don't give God credit for my life then I lack humility. Jesus, one of the most humble people to walk the earth, said, "the father that dwelleth in me, he doeth the works." One's greatness is a direct reflection on one's humility.
The more one allows arrogance to dispel humility the greater the distance from God. The farther we get from God the more pain is generated as a result of God's love for us and his refusal to lose our soul. There is nothing we can do to separate God from ourselves but much can separate us from God. The Ten Commandments and most of the stories in the Bible reflect the dangers of SIN (Self Inflicted Nonsense) or those things that block God's love. We must, through humility, stay in constant conscious contact with God if we want constant blessings.
Live loud and stay humble. Love God and see God's greatness in all of HIS creation. Do not look for the bad in anything but stay in wonder and awe of all things. If one basks in love one cannot be basked in love and always remember...
Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
New Years Resolutions
With 2012 in full motion, I hope all of you set new year resolutions. Resolutions are changes we would like to make in ourselves to improve our lives. We must continually be paying attention to our assets and defects in an effort to move closer to our perfect self! As we strengthen our assets through practice, we become aware of our defects and work on letting them go. We don't fight our defects as this only strengthens them. This is a result of the spiritual law, "What we fight we empower." God is in control and will not fight our freedom of choice if it separates us but will empower us in a Godly direction.
We are perfect in our spiritual nature but flawed in our human nature or Ego. This is why I say practice what works and let go of what doesn't. The only true flaw in our Ego is that which separates us from a constant awareness of God. To guarantee we can't separate ourselves from God, laws were set to create pain through our separation. The more the distance, the more severe the pain or lack of success.
All my new years resolutions are made in an attempt to reach spiritual perfection. But there are a few things I needed to learn about change before I expected to actually meet my resolutions. It is a psychological fact that if we want to feel good about ourselves we must continually be moving from success to success no mater how small. We are driven by our spiritual self, which is God like and in continually need of developing its creative nature. This is why you have heard me harp on the fact that we must never settle for anything.
We should set far reaching goals for ourselves supported by intricate plans and all driven by constant action. Those that work at achieving their resolutions, even if they fail, will achieve small amounts of accomplishment merely for the effort. Those that do nothing achieve nothing. Set life changing goals for yourself this year and remember...
Your life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
Blessings
As
a child of God, I am a blessing. Through God's relentless grace, I am blessed.
To feel blessed I must also bless, as this is the law of circulation. The
practice of this law is what I call Vertical and Horizontal spirituality. I
must stay in constant conscious contact with God and I must pass the power I
get to others in order to keep the movement of God flowing.
In the law of circulation, the power comes from God, to me. For this power to work it must pass through me and out of me, hopefully into you. All power from God whether it be a blessing, love, patience or any of the hundreds of principals of God must pass though me to continue the circulation. Whether the power continues through you into others is on you as I can only be responsible for my part in the flow of power or presence of God. If we could get all of God's children, all 6,983,982,636 of us (as of 16:13 UTC (EST+5) Dec 27, 2011) to follow this spiritual law of circulation we could see the end of war, poverty, hunger and all other forms of unhappiness.
We must constantly bless others if we want maintain constant blessings for ourselves. "Love thy neighbor as thyself," is not just a good idea it is the law of circulation. When we, through our irresponsibility, stop the circulation, we not only impede ourselves, we also obstruct the flow that is necessary in fulfilling the law of circulation to others. We must be willing to take anyone who wants to join us in our journey if we expect to finish our journey. With this law in mind, it is important to always remember...
Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr.
Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
Gratitude
Tis the season to be grateful. I was told years ago that one cannot be unhappy and grateful at the same time. After years of metaphysics I not only agree with the need for gratitude but I understand the spiritual laws behind the action. Behind all manifestation is law and action. This world is ours to develop, as we have been given dominion over all earthly things. We can only accomplish this successfully with the support of our intuitive or spiritual self directing us.
When we become grateful we start to see how all the universe is intertwined. When we get grateful we realize that all that we have must be returned to the earth in order to complete the cycle and keep good things coming our way. I have been quoted as saying, "I cannot get to the top of my quest without taking anyone who wants to join me." I don't drag people, force people, coerce people or convert people. I just live my life loud, in a constant air of gratitude and be there for people, when the awareness of their condition surfaces.
I got sober over 31 years ago with long lists of should haves, shouldn't haves, wished I'd haves, hatred and unhappiness. I now feel I am over paid. Very little has change other than today I don't see life as a series of problems; I see incredible opportunity. I don't wish I had; I am glad I did. I don't doubt; I trust. I don't hate; I love. I am so grateful there were people there to catch me before I hit the pavement and died. The best way I know to pay people back for all they have done in order to help me turn my life around is to be available to the next wave of misdirected people.
Before people can get grateful they must understand God's grace. Everything in God's universe is good. God has allowed everything to happen to us in order to help us find our ultimate potential. Everything in God's universe is based in love. God does not punish. We punish ourselves with the misunderstanding of God's love. It is this understanding that I leave you every time with...
Your Live is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy. D.
Christmas
Christmas is not Santa Claus, the tree, the presents, the lights, the parties and all the commercialism. I would like to remind everyone that the birth of Jesus is the reason for the season. We are quickly approaching the 2011th birthday of the greatest prophet to ever walk the planet. Jesus brought a new message on the facets of God and God's relationship to us all, as we in Metaphysics call our Christ-self. As the Christ was born with Jesus it is also born with us. By studying Matthew, Mark, Luke and John in the New Testament we can evaluate what living the Christ life looks like. All we have to do is answer the call and follow the Christ in us and our lives immediately change for the better.
I have said often that we have both a human nature and a spiritual nature. It is the Soul, the Christ within us that has our answers and this is what Christmas is all about. We have been loved by God since our beginning but we must devote ourselves to God as God's love is devoted to us. Do Jesus proud by celebrate Christmas with enthusiasm and gratitude, practicing a life of love as seen in the life of Jesus. We no longer have to fear God as God's grace is always and forever.
Christ dispelled the historical Old Testament understanding of God as a judgmental, taskmaster. He replaced the God of fear with the God of love. He called God, Our Father. He told us that God is like the perfect parent. All any of us wants for our children is greatness. The difference between God's relationship to us and our relationship of our children is that God is not powerless, therefore he has no need for emotion. What God wants eventually God gets. God cannot interfere with our choices as he gave us free will. He has made separating ourselves from our greatness a painful choice. God doesn't deliver turmoil to us; we bring it on ourselves and even then he turns our turmoil into understanding and a blessing.
I am so grateful for the God of my understanding. God's has always been there for me. If God was saddled with humanness I would not have made my transformation as all my work is My Father working through me. I was saved by God's persistence, which is a byproduct of grace. I can do nothing to stop God from loving me but I can separate myself from God by not loving God. This is the reason I always leave you with...
Your Life Is Perfect!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
Loyalty
Last night as I was riding the bus back to my car after the football game, I was talking to a couple of fans of the opposing team. I mentioned that I was a fan of their team for years. This response brought a resounding response and a barrage of negative reproach. I was told by one of the younger fans that they would never lose their loyalty. This brought me to question loyalty and this is my blog.
According to Encarta Dictionary loyalty is the act of remaining faithful to a country, person, ruler, government, or ideal. I am only faithful to my God as God is unchanging and can always be trusted. With God as my example, I am only loyal to that which is loyal to me. I refuse to prostitute my future from any belief I have today. It seems as the older I get the less crow I am willing to eat therefore the longer it takes me to respond to situations.
I have learned through years of personal behavioral inventories that the faster I react, the less success I can expect. When we take our time in evaluating information involved in every decision we will tend to make much wiser choices. Yet no matter what decision we make we must never be loyal beyond the now as information continually changes. We must stay in the now and be quick to change with those changes. The one thing that is guaranteed not to change is change itself.
God doesn't change therefore true reality never changes. For me to have a better relationship with God I must be quick to change my mind. When the information I have chosen as reality is merely my reality and not real I must step into the now with grace and dignity. Loyalty is wonderful if it has been earned but is an anchor to growth if it is held beyond its suitability. It is due to this changeability that I always leave you with...
Your life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy.D.
Determination
Encarta dictionary defines determination as firmness of purpose, will, or intention. Much has been written on this subject yet not enough has been read. For one to be determined one must first remove all forms of fear, worry or doubt for these things are disloyal to God. Determination is what propels successful people beyond the point of retreat for which others turn away from their goals.
If our goals are set according to our inner calling, what the Bible calls our heart's desire, we can easily acquire determination. Success is found through designing a vivid goal, establishing rigid plans and acting with determination. By listening to our soul, through meditation, we hear God's inherent goals for us. It is our determination that takes us to our goal but it is knowing our heart's desire that brings serenity upon reaching our goal.
I have had determination in my life with goals founded in Ego and upon reaching my goal I found myself wanting. Since I have learned to pray for God to show me his will for me and the power to carry it out, I have been much more exact in my goal setting. I will never find contentment in achieving a goal for which I was not intended. It is the awareness of this knowledge that allows me to forgive my past and realize it was vital in acquiring my spiritual purpose. God wastes nothing in accomplishing his wishes for us.
I offer God my complete allegiance. I patiently meditate throughout the day, listening to God's guidance. By practicing spiritual principals I begin to model my spiritual heredity becoming the person God designed me to be. I know I certainly feel better about myself when I am living in accordance with the God of my understanding and I hope God is proud of the life I am living.
Life is a combination of intellect and feeling. When I stay determined in finding and accomplishing God's will for me I utilize my intellect in achieving my goal, while my feelings determine my success. And as always I leave with you a thought to keep you moving toward your personal best...
Your Life is PERFECT!
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Love,
Dr. Randolph Ek, Mpsy. D.
